Harmonizing the Natal Chart - стр. 18

Another approach to selecting a partner is choosing someone whose status aligns with Sagittarius' themes—such as a teacher, mentor, or guru—someone who is respected and whose work is of interest.

Venus in Gemini does not naturally favor large-scale commitments in relationships. However, Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, which expands everything, including boundaries. Therefore, traveling abroad and studying different cultures can be particularly beneficial.

Venus in Cancer makes a person vulnerable and sensitive. It is necessary to work through feelings of resentment; otherwise, the person will become emotionally closed off, which hinders deep emotional connection—the foundation of relationships. It is important to develop Capricorn qualities, meaning to become less emotionally reactive to circumstances, not take everything too personally, and broaden one's worldview to understand that every offender is given to teach something.

Such individuals seek deep connection and emotional understanding in relationships with their partner. The process of working through their Venus lies in realizing that if their partner cannot provide this sufficiently, they must accept that the other person has the right to be different—perhaps less emotionally expressive—and not take offense when their expectations are not met.

Venus in Cancer does not always favor a person’s appearance, as they may often look too casual, not putting much effort into their external image. It is necessary to always look attractive and remember that a partner is not a parental figure—one must maintain physical appeal. Often, those with Venus in Cancer behave as their parents did.

This person may become stagnant in relationships, unwilling or hesitant to change anything. It is crucial to shift their approach to relationships, change circumstances when necessary, and not be afraid to leave relationships that have outlived themselves due to attachment and a desire for stability.

A person with Venus in Cancer may subconsciously place the responsibility for their emotional state on their partner, expecting the same warmth and emotional giving that they themselves provide. They must learn to take responsibility for their own emotional well-being. To do so, they should study themselves and their partner through Vedic astrology and psychology. It is important to build inner strength without relying on the partner to shape the relationship.

One must develop independence in love, understand what they truly want from relationships, and adopt the qualities of Capricorn (Cancer’s opposite sign), which values clarity and structure. A clear vision of the type of relationship they desire is essential.