Harmonizing the Natal Chart - стр. 16
A well-balanced Venus fosters the perception of the divine in everything and also brings material prosperity and a desire to engage in creative activities.
An unbalanced Venus causes difficulties in partnerships and love, frequent changes of partners, uncontrollable material desires, and a lack of joy. Infidelity, excessive lust, endless material cravings, and disrespect toward women harm Venus.
Venus is harmonized through creative pursuits, self-love, working on one's appearance and image, studying the arts, observing nature, and developing a sense of taste, as well as external and internal harmony.
The best day to begin harmonization is Friday (Venus’ day). On this day, one should chant or sing the Venus mantra 108 times (OM SHUKRAYA NAMAHA).
It is recommended to give flowers to women, grow plants with large blossoms, and use stones such as white coral, diamond, and rock crystal (which can be placed in the home). Wearing a ring with a gemstone should be done only after consulting a specialist who has studied your natal chart.
It is beneficial to decorate one’s home and workplace with flowers and fruits, show reverence to Lakshmi, Saraswati, and Parvati (by placing statues or hanging pictures), cultivate selfless love, treat people to sweets, enjoy delicious food without guilt, and help homeless people and animals.
Such a person is more focused on themselves than on their partner and may be assertive in certain situations. It is important to communicate calmly and strive to understand what the partner wants. There may be frustration when the partner does not act as expected.
The fiery reactions of Aries should not be suppressed, but Venus should be worked on through self-development, self-discovery, sports, dance, and sex—engaging in activities that bring pleasure. Having a hobby (such as embroidery, knitting, or assembling puzzles) is also beneficial.
Additionally, one must learn to ask the partner for help rather than doing everything alone, assuming that it will be quicker and better that way.
A woman with Venus in Aries may lack a sense of feminine self-sufficiency. She might not feel filled with feminine energy, even though outwardly she tries to appear bright, well-groomed, and feminine. She desires to fulfill her wishes quickly, but the partner may not always share this pace or may need more time.
Such individuals need to learn to consider their partner, develop softness, reduce assertiveness, become more accommodating and diplomatic, and learn to negotiate, understand, and accept. They should calmly discuss problems. Essentially, they must adopt the best qualities of Libra—the opposite sign of Aries. This is how planets in signs are harmonized—by integrating the qualities of their opposing sign.