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William Pollack, “No Man Is an Island: Toward a New Psychoanalytic Psychology of Men,” in A New Psychology of Men, ed. R. F. Levant and W. S. Pollack (New York: Basic Books, 1995), 33–67.

Christina Hoff Somers, The War Against Boys: How Misguided Policies Are Harming Our Young Men (New York, Simon & Schuster, 2015); Peg Tyre, The Trouble with Boys: A Surprising Report Card on Our Sons, Their Problems at School, and What Parents and Educators Must Do (New York: Harmony, 2009).

«Государство американского отрочества». – Прим. ред.

Judith Kleinfeld, “Student Performance: Males Versus Females,” Public Interest 134 (1999): 3–20; Tom Mortenson, “Economic Change Effects on Men and Implications for the Education of Boys,” Education Week, May 14, 2011, www.edweek.org/media/ economicchange-32boys.pdf.

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Niobe Way, Deep Secrets: Boys’ Friendships and the Crisis of Connection (Boston, MA: Harvard University Press, 2011).

«Разоблачение синдрома дефицита внимания». – Прим. ред.

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Justin Baldoni, “What My Newborn Son Taught Me About Masculinity,” Huffington Post, March 1, 2018, www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/opinion-baldoni-masculinity-fatherhood_ us_5a944e25e4b02cb368c46d6d.

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Гендер – спектр характеристик маскулинности или феминности, включает в себя социальные роли, самоопределение индивидуума. Гендер не тождественен биологическому полу – различия между мужским и женским гендером сугубо социальные, а не биологические. Гендерные стереотипы – распространенные в обществе представления о поведении представителей гендера. – Прим. ред.

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Chu, When Boys Become “Boys,” 206–7.

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Кинокомедия 1987 года. Сюжет картины рассказывает о противостоянии двух студенческих братств в кампусе Университета Фарбер. Картина оказалась одной из наиболее коммерчески успешных картин 1970-х и стала основой для нового комедийного жанра. Низкопробный юмор, вульгарные шутки оказали влияние на целое поколение картин в американском кинематографе. – Прим. ред.

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Way, Deep Secrets, 77.

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«Родительство наизнанку: как глубокое самопознание поможет вырастить процветающего ребенка». На русском языке не издавалась. – Прим. ред.

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Daniel J. Siegel. The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are (New York: Guilford Press, 1999), xii.

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